THE RELATIONSHIP AUDIT

KNOW WHERE YOU STAND-THEN DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT.

Most people navigate their most important relationships entirely reactively —

Responding to crises rather than building proactively.

Addressing problems when they become unavoidable rather than investing before they arise.

The Relationship Audit gives you 20 honest questions to assess where
your most significant relationship actually stands —

Not where you hope it stands.
Not where it used to stand.

Where it actually stands right now.

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20 QUESTIONS — 4 CATEGORIES

CATEGORY 1 — CONNECTION
5 questions examining the depth of genuine conversation, mutual knowing, joy, emotional experience, and unspoken truths.

Sample question:
How often do we have genuine conversations — not logistics but real meaningful exchanges?

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CATEGORY 2 — TRUST
5 questions examining honesty, received honesty, unresolved wounds, vulnerability, and assumed good faith.

Sample question:
Can I be fully myself with this person — including my doubts, failures, and weaknesses?

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CATEGORY 3 — GROWTH
5 questions examining the spiritual effect,
personal development, relational
direction, shared future, and trajectory.

Sample question:
Does this relationship make me more of who God designed me to be — or less?

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CATEGORY 4 — CONFLICT AND REPAIR
5 questions examining conflict capacity,
unresolved tension, accountability,
grievance management, and repair quality.

Sample question: After conflict, does this relationship genuinely restore — or does residue remain?

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YOUR SCORE OUT OF 100

Rate each question honestly — 1 to 5.
Total your score.

80 to 100 — Genuinely healthy.
Invest to maintain and deepen.

60 to 79 — Real strengths with gaps.
Address the specific gaps now.

40 to 59 — Needs intentional investment.
Begin the work this week.

Below 40 — Needs significant attention.
Consider seeking counsel.

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YOUR 3-STEP ACTION PLAN

Based on your audit results, identify your three most important
Next steps for the next 30 days.

Specific. Realistic. Time-bound, the relationship that gets honest attention gets better.
The one that stays unexamined stays stuck.

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WORKS FOR ANY SIGNIFICANT RELATIONSHIP

✦ Marriage and long-term partnership
✦ Close friendship
✦ Parent and adult child
✦ Ministry and business partnership
✦ Any relationship worth keeping

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"Two are better than one, because they
have a good return for their labor."
— Ecclesiastes 4:9